How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 04:06
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Have you ever had a scary dream about a loved one or friend soon after their death?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Is the Las Vegas Grand Prix considered one of the "premier events on the Formula 1 calendar?"
Procrastinates a lot.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Why won't Canada build their own fighter jet?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
That's it for today.
What was it like being spanked as a kid?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Ask yourself:
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
What do you think of the Quora group "It's Ok to Be White" for people who are proud of being white?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Do not set goals—set systems.
What’s something you did a lot as a kid that you don’t miss now that you’re an adult?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
What I need from you?
Why do you think Islam oppresses women when Christianity clearly does it more?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Do other British people agree that the UK should reconquer Ireland?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Do Republicans want to ban books and decide what your kids can and can’t read?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Milky Way arcs over Kitt Peak National Observatory photo of the day for June 16, 2025 - Space
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Why do men choose to marry a plain Jane woman over a pretty woman?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Does not procrastinate.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.